Simple Guidance for You in Why Slow Success Builds Character and Fast Success Builds Ego
What is success?
Nobody can define success for you, and no one can do it for you. Making a difference in the world is one way to define success. It could show a sense of accomplishment and advancement in your job. It could mean being able to pursue your passions. Likewise, it could be able to offer your children the greatest possible upbringing.
It’s up to you. Isn’t it true that some people seem to have all the luck? They have the best jobs, the nicest cars, and live in their dream homes – everything comes easy to them. And yet, those people rarely seem happy with themselves and their lives. While those people are busy enjoying the rewards of their achievements, others have worked twice as hard to achieve half as much and yet are still grateful for what they have and happy with life. What does this mean? Why does one group of people always seem so content while the other group cannot stop complaining?
Because it’s all about having the right mindset and enjoying the ride. “Boost your pace. Do more. Hustle. Exceed your hustle.” Does this sound familiar?
Influencers, innovators, and “experts” abound on social media, showing the benefits of hustling at all costs. It’s got to the point where hustling, and even talking about hustling, seems to be more essential than actually getting things done.
Make time for clarity by slowing down. If you’re too busy running with your head down, you can’t see where you’re going.
Why should we slow down?
Successful living is a journey, not a destination. There is always something new to learn, something to accomplish, a new goal to set.
In slow success, progress is like running down a winding path that leads to a clearing that provides rewards, but each of those rewards brings new challenges. If you go too fast down that trail, you may miss those opportunities or realize too late how essential they were.
It’s good to know where you want to end up in life (even if it’s vague), but going too quickly can be dangerous.
Because remember, Easy comes, easy go! Slowing down teaches us patience, hard work, and the ups and downs of life.
If success requires making the right decisions, and slowing it down helps you make better choices, think about how you can dedicate more time to slow it down. This will help you perform better, quicker, more effectively, and sustainably. You’ll also have a better understanding and appreciation of yourself and the process.
Slowing Down Will Help Us Succeed Long Term:
Slow, steady success is much better for your long-term financial and emotional health than a quick win. If you want to succeed long-term in any aspect of life, it’s best to take it slow. People who win quickly (i.e., lottery winners) rarely know how to manage their finances properly, leading them to spend their money foolishly or lead a lifestyle that will eventually catch up with them.
Failure in slowing down teaches us the attitude of never giving up and gives a ray of hope. If we do things slowly, then we have time to make adjustments along the way. People who move quickly often fail because they don’t have time to learn from their mistakes. This is why a lot of highly successful people talk about how important it is to slow down.
For example, legendary actor Shahrukh Khan, as a result of his dark look, struggled a lot, taking small roles in serials like “Joker” to pay for his daily needs, but he refused to give up and that attitude made Shahrukh the biggest star in Bollywood. Shahrukh Khan became a big movie star without a godfather and with the same look and attitude.
Once, Shahrukh Khan and his family were living in a rented apartment and couldn’t afford to go to a movie theatre but today, he can buy all of the luxurious items available in this world. It was Shahrukh Khan’s hard work, perseverance, and determination to achieve what he has always desired.
This defines Slow Success!
There Is Nothing Wrong With A Slow Start:
We’ve all heard of overnight successes. However, when we look at real successful people, we can see that they are the result of hard work.
While still in college, Bill Gates was working on MS-DOS at night. Taylor Swift played open mic nights for years before she hit it big. Seth Godin self-published multiple books before launching his marketing consultancy and so on. These are real-life examples of taking it slow and winning big.
If you compare yourself only to those with overnight success, it’s easy to think something is wrong with you. Why haven’t things taken off yet? Why are others passing you by? It can make us feel like we wasted our hard work; after all, if we just hustled more, maybe we could reach their level, but the reality is usually different.
In almost every case, these people had to start somewhere—they weren’t famous at first either. They had off days, too. Those who went from zero to hero never saw themselves as failures or disappointments until they looked back in hindsight; rather, they focused on building their skill-set over time while facing repeated challenges and small failures along the way.
Patience Pays Off In the End:
Many people like to get rich quick. They read books about billionaires or listen to popular podcasts about entrepreneurs. But that’s not how success happens. Successful people aren’t risk-takers—they’re calculators. They take their time to analyse every detail of a business opportunity before jumping in headfirst. If you want your own business, remember that patience is a virtue. It will pay off in the end.
Slow success teaches us the importance of time, people, money, and situations. A successful man knows the value of savings.
Rather than focusing on fast growth, concentrate on developing your career. Even small successes can add up over time if you play them right.
Just ask, Walt Disney, a disastrous failure of a cartoon series in Kansas City left him bankrupt at the age of 22. Also, he wanted to be a Hollywood actor, but that did not work out. Due to his lack of creativity and imagination, he was fired by the editor of a newspaper. But his design of Mickey Mouse, the iconic character that created history, was the result of massive failure.
So, take your time and be patient.
Why Choose Slow Success Over Fast Success?
A person who has achieved success through hard work and dedication will always be down to earth, humble and compassionate toward others. The person who gets fast success may not understand the importance of the process, whereas the person who is involved in the process genuinely enjoys it.
Slowing down helps us deal with the competition more healthily. Long-term success comes from slow progress. It proves the individual’s genuine knowledge. It may take a little longer to go the slow route, but it is well worth the effort. To achieve the goal, a lot of hard work must be put in.
However, it is unlikely to be successful overnight. Many people who succeed quickly lack the patience, hard work, and consistency to succeed. A lack of awareness towards time, money, people, and situations can be harmful.
But those who succeed slowly have the ability to accept feedback and criticism kindly. It is these qualities that build their character. Despite having a variety of experiences, they remain eager to learn.
The effects of fast success can be temporary, and one might be distracted from his main goal once he gets fame and money. There are high chances of running after money and fandom if you reach success fast. Fewer efforts in quick success do not diminish its worth.
Slow success builds character because you have to go through different stages of life as you run different projects working with different people who have different perceptions of life.
Success does not happen overnight; it fades away as quickly as it appears. Taking feedback and criticism well is difficult when you achieve fast success. Also, making a lot of money is regarded as the key to success, which is clearly not true.
Success is believing in yourself, focusing on one task at a time, moving at your own pace, and accomplishing small but significant goals.
Few Have Achieved Fast Success and Deserve It:
However, some people really achieve a lot of success with less effort and time, but they deserve it. There are some exceptions to everything.
Sometimes, there can be a luck factor that gives someone success fast. It’s absolutely fine to achieve success quickly if one takes care of the above-mentioned things. Success is a subjective thing, and one cannot define it otherwise.
Slow success fosters wisdom, while fast success fosters Ego!
Renuka Indurkar
(Sunshine Writes)
1 comment
Beautiful article. It helps me alot. Thank you Renuka.